“Common sense suggests that asking the right questions before getting married can make for a better union, but rarely is the other side of the coin examined.
That could be because, by the time the prospect of divorce surfaces, spouses may already be in a stressful frame of mind, and in no mood for a game of 20 — or even 11 — questions.”
See the link below to an article written by Eric V. Copage detailing 11 questions couples should ask before contacting a lawyer or mediator.